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Two big negatives, a multitude of small positives

We’re nearly there – 2013 is taking its last breaths and with it a chapter is closing. It is a year which promised so much but delivered so little. The greatest thing its closing brings is the start of another year that, all things considered, presents challenges and opportunities to behold. It will definitely surpass anything the outgoing year offered.

Let’s start with the negatives – my father’s passing left a huge void in my life. It was expected, yet shocking. I knew that the phone call that came in at 2.44am on 4 November would bear no good news. I contemplated not answering in the hope that all will be fixed when I woke up the next morning. It didn’t happen.

Travelling home to Malta for the funeral was devastating. It also made me realise that my contacts with my native country are slowly coming undone.

It also made me kick myself for not listening to Nirvana’s final recommendations about telling people you love them. I didn’t, simply because I wanted to tell my father ‘I love you’ in person. It was too late. I now make sure I tell my kids – every day, many times a day.

This year also saw me effectively losing my job – it may not be so immediate, but my days at Chevrolet Europe are sadly numbered. General Motors has decided to ‘exit’ Europe and the decision has obvious consequences. It’s a pity – I like Chevrolet, and will miss most of the people working there.

Sometimes, however, being forced into taking a decision makes you see everything in a different perspective. I see it as an opportunity to better my situation, even though right now it may be hard to see life through rose-tinted glasses. But it will happen.

What I’m sure of is that 2014 will be very interesting. For the time being, there is still a job to be done at Chevrolet, and we’ll make sure it’s done right as our customers and those who believe in us deserve nothing less.

There have been a multitude of positives in 2013 – my daughters are all healthy and are enjoying what life is throwing at them. They laugh a lot, and that sound always makes me happy. We had fun holidays with friends, went biking, played, fought and cried together.

Work wise, we had some very successful events – the Trax launch in Croatia, Geneva Motor Show and IAA, the Young Creative Chevrolet Award Night in Manchester and other small, meaningless things that mean so much to so many.

I also started my Masters degree in Media, Communication and Public Relations, ran a half marathon and am now preparing to run a marathon. And Leicester City is top of the table – go Foxes!

The two negatives of the year might have been big, but the sheer amount of small positives has been incredible – maybe this year delivered more than I’m realising. That’s what I’m taking into 2014.

Looking back and thinking forward

It’s been a good year, all summed up. My kids are in good health and happy, as is my wife. My father, after suffering a stroke in 2009, is well on the mend. My mum still worries about everything, which is a good sign. I still love my house (and wife) and we have a new car.

In 2010, I finished my Bachelor of Arts, completed two triathlons, have done well at work (I believe) and been there when my kids needed me. I am also completing my fifth year as a non-smoker.

I now wonder what’s in store for 2011. I wish that all the above mentioned health and happiness issues remain unchanged, or get better. I believe the sun will shine brighter than ever in 2011. By July 2011, I’ll have been married for eight years (seven-year itch concerns put to rest). I may also attempt the S2 challenge if I learn how to rollerblade properly (I can do it, but I look like a drunk spinning top when trying). And, of course, there are the two or three triathlons I am planning to complete. Also on the cards is a one-week camping holiday with the girls (and possibly a couple of friends).

And there may be more – let’s just hope Santa delivers the present I want. Oh, by the way, happy Christmas all.

A new chapter, or two…

I write this as I wait on a train at a station in the middle of nowhere. Our train has broken down, apparently, and we’re not going anywhere anytime soon. We can’t get off. We are stuck and cannot do anything about it.

 It’s like an analogy for life. However well you prepare, you can never anticipate everything – despite all your plans and arrangements, things can go pear-shaped.

 So I sit and wait – and think, a dangerous sport at the best of times. I can’t say things are all that bad for me, really. Just like this train. It may occasionally stop and need help to get going again, but it is not a write-off. Admittedly though, some things may need changing.  And that is what I am working on – changing those things in my life that need changing.

 This process may be painful, the results not always what we want, but there must be movement towards new things and new places. I need to close a chapter – or two – and start a couple of new ones.

 As if on cue, my train has sprung back to life. I intend doing the same.

Running out of time

On yer bike: Looking ahead to new challenges

It’s hard to find the right motivation to get into my running or biking gear and heading out for a run. Going for a swim is even harder. I’ve done some sort of physical activity for the past few Sundays, but lately it’s getting harder and harder.

I guess one reason for that is that time is a sparse commodity, plus I can’t say I’m currently in good shape. They (whoever they may be) say that if you really want to do something, you’ll find the time.

So maybe it isn’t time after all, but something more deep-rooted. I’m starting to wonder whether I need a new set of goals. Around six years ago, I set myself two targets – to get a degree and to complete a triathlon. I’ve done one of the first and many of the second. Now what?